well caught my girlfriend cheating on me and this other guy is going to homecoming with her. ther is nothing left of me I saw her with another guy at lunch holding each other and she claims she "can't go grrrr he's just using her to make his ex jelous at homecoming I don't want her to be hurt. I still really care about her........................... please FES help me :unsure: :( :wub: :( :unsure:

Kill him.

I should yeah hahah thanks for the pick me up................. h forgot to mention she's liked this guy her whole life prettey much

Unless losing this girl is such a serious threat to your health and well-being that you honestly can't live without her, I suggest moving on.

well denning This was the first girl she came back to me and she looks alot better I just feel used and unappriciated

Which is exactly why you move on. There's no point in lamenting over the past.

well I'm not this isn't the past homecoming is tommarow and thats when she will realize she was used I was cheated and lied to. She's oblivious to whats happaning I have to warn her.......... but then she'll think I'm jelous or stalking her but I heard him say it he was using her those exact words................. AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHH

I guess you have two choices:

1. Be emo all about it

2. Move on

If you're really the "best thing for her" or whatever it is, then the best thing that you can do is - seriously - move the hell on. Let her fuck up on her own for once; she'd be right to think you're clinging, because you can't be there for her all the time, nor should you really want to at this stage in your life.

lamenting over traitors is small time.

Beat her

Tell her about the guy, if she doesn't understand then hey, you tried.

I think so far Merc has the best Idea thanks alot guys....................................................

Due to the fact that people make better decisions on the fly, walk up to her, and just say whatever you want to say most.

Protip: This has a 80% chance of blowing up in your face because of the multitudes of little things that go wrong.


My real advice: Clam down, drink some iced tea, and just wait for the shit storm to miss you completely. Or go emo. That works too.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. You're single again, get over it. You can try talking to her, like merc said, but don't let it bring you down if you are let down.

well after homecoming I went walking by the hall and guess who I saw my Girlfriend............ She was sitting on the curb crying so I decided sure I'll comfort her so she said I was right she apologized she knew it was gunna be a one night deal and didn't want me to know but whatever.................................................. I'm happy she's happy and everythings cool

That's good.

thank you FES for your help thanks alot also thank you for future reference mmmk thank y'all g'night

That's good to hear.

You didn't beat her? I'm disappointed. The best time to kick somebody is when they're sitting on the ground. Their head is at the perfect level

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That would be the wrong time to kick someone's ass. It's not even possible at that point.

I just said beat her, not kick her ass. If you beat her, you do enough damage to keep her in her place but if you kick her ass, it's just going too far.